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17
Nov
Club BMW

Club BMW

Not your average luxury-car commercial: A gay trans sex-abuse survivor drives a sleek shiny Beemer through wine country with another man he loves.
19 min read
10
Nov
Things I Didn’t Say to An Older Closeted Queer I Met in an RV Park

Things I Didn’t Say to An Older Closeted Queer I Met in an RV Park

Dear T.
3 min read
08
Nov
Road Trip to Regeneration

Road Trip to Regeneration

On no longer settling for what looks right.
4 min read
01
Nov
This morning, I woke up and pooped in a truck

This morning, I woke up and pooped in a truck

That time when I moved into an RV.
4 min read
27
Oct
Respectability, R.I.P.

Respectability, R.I.P.

The freedom and horror of being insufficient.
4 min read
22
Oct
An Incomplete List of Ways That Reporting My Childhood Sex Abuse Could Go Poorly

An Incomplete List of Ways That Reporting My Childhood Sex Abuse Could Go Poorly

Defamation lawsuits against survivors of intimate violence are on the rise globally—and in July I walked into a police station and filed a report.
4 min read
02
Oct
Hey Jupiter

Hey Jupiter

A letter to a goat who knows more about love than I did
4 min read
29
Sep
Treatment.

Treatment.

I spent my life savings on sex-abuse treatment. A new law made it harder to get reimbursed.
5 min read
09
Sep
The Great Transsexual Baking Cope-Off

The Great Transsexual Baking Cope-Off

This whole thing is basically a trigger warning. Me, too.
15 min read
22
Aug
Two in the Morning in Budapest (A Gay Trans Psychedelic-Integration White Indigenous Hot-Spring Pilgrimage)

Two in the Morning in Budapest (A Gay Trans Psychedelic-Integration White Indigenous Hot-Spring Pilgrimage)

Everyone comes from—and belongs—somewhere.
36 min read