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15
Aug
A TV screenshot of man with his face covered in rhinoceros makeup stands in a room filled with lit candles, and the caption, “The Dolphin Queen chose me.”

Heed the Dolphin Queen

Maybe being myself is easier than I think.
4 min read
31
Jul
Navy Gay Death Cruise

Navy Gay Death Cruise

Three trans people walk onto a warship.
14 min read
22
Jun
Unpaid Advertisement: Three Cherries

Unpaid Advertisement: Three Cherries

Better living through garnishes (and throughout wars).
10 min read
11
May
Happy You-Survived-Your-Mother Day

Happy You-Survived-Your-Mother Day

To my fellow undercared-fors.
5 min read
01
Apr
The author leans into a life-sized skeleton tacked against a wooden post in a bar, making a kissing face.

The White Lotus Is Stealth Trans Hate.

Let’s talk about Real Trans Sex, HBO.
13 min read
25
Feb
Trans Island

Trans Island

How to Get as Wild as You Were Meant to Be
3 min read
04
Feb
A man with sparkling black stiletto nails holds up a glass of whiskey in a “cheers” motion.

An Incomplete List of Things I Love About My Trans Life

A tiny Trump antidote
8 min read
10
Jan
Unpaid Advertisement: Other People’s Boyfriends

Unpaid Advertisement: Other People’s Boyfriends

Do you really need your own?
6 min read
31
Dec
A tuxedo cat stares out sheer gold window curtains.

New Moon, New Year, No Rules

Get wilder with this week’s “black moon” 🌑 💅
7 min read
17
Dec
Four pillows encased in ombre silk fading from royal blue to pink on an RV bed in front of windows overlooking green trees.

What to Get for the Man Who Has Everything

The Whenever’s bougie homeless gay gift guide 🎁
14 min read