102 posts
Club BMW
Transness

Club BMW

Not your average luxury-car commercial: A gay trans sex-abuse survivor drives a sleek shiny Beemer through wine country with another man he loves.
⸱ 19 minutes read
Things I Didn’t Say to An Older Closeted Queer I Met in an RV Park
The RV Diary

Things I Didn’t Say to An Older Closeted Queer I Met in an RV Park

Dear T.
⸱ 3 minutes read
Road Trip to Regeneration
The RV Diary

Road Trip to Regeneration

On no longer settling for what looks right.
⸱ 4 minutes read
This morning, I woke up and pooped in a truck
The RV Diary

This morning, I woke up and pooped in a truck

That time when I moved into an RV.
⸱ 4 minutes read
Respectability, R.I.P.
Incest

Respectability, R.I.P.

The freedom and horror of being insufficient.
⸱ 4 minutes read
An Incomplete List of Ways That Reporting My Childhood Sex Abuse Could Go Poorly
Fuck the Media

An Incomplete List of Ways That Reporting My Childhood Sex Abuse Could Go Poorly

Defamation lawsuits against survivors of intimate violence are on the rise globally—and in July I walked into a police station and filed a report.
⸱ 4 minutes read
Hey Jupiter
Self(hood) Help

Hey Jupiter

A letter to a goat who knows more about love than I did
⸱ 4 minutes read
Treatment.
Incest

Treatment.

I spent my life savings on sex-abuse treatment. A new law made it harder to get reimbursed.
⸱ 5 minutes read
The Great Transsexual Baking Cope-Off
Self(hood) Help

The Great Transsexual Baking Cope-Off

This whole thing is basically a trigger warning. Me, too.
⸱ 15 minutes read